We all have that friend that always wants to know why we aren’t dating. It is something that people have wanted to know ever since their friends and family realized that the transition to adulthood was near. Somewhere along the way, people decided that once this time in life hits, dating is the biggest priority all people should have. Not only is this not true, but it could be unhealthy for society. Some people are very happy not even dating at all.

That said, most people do date, and as long as they do people will be asking questions and making judgments. Here are some strategies to deal with the people in your life that are always thinking you should be dating.

1. Only talk about dating after a certain point in the dating process: This seems to work well for a lot of people. Dating over the phone, even casually, might be an occasional (or more than occasional) part of your life. By attaching a level of seriousness, you can train your friends and family, while still letting them know that you will talk with them about potential love partners when the time is right.

Let them know that love shouldn’t be rushed or forced. The thing about love is that people generally understand (or at least don’t argue) when these statements are made. Love is something that both people in a couple should want and practice. Finding a great match that is also motivated is hard. When worded well, most people simply have to agree that pushing love on people is not a cool thing to do.

Practice being true to yourself: Perhaps you don’t want to date at all, or you are just taking time to meet great people for casual sex on a phone dating hotline rather than jumping back into the dating game. Either way, spending more time doing the things that make you happy is usually a great idea. Your happiness is one of the things that makes your unique wants so important. Live life at your own pace, and take the time to think about what you want, it will make a big difference.

Calling a gay phone line dating is a great way to date (or not date, but have access to hot fun. Call today and live the life you choose.